I’ve sat down, on more than one occasion, to update everyone on how things are going on this end. I open up this page to start typing and without fail I am interrupted.
Wish me luck. Because, at this point, it feels like it’s been so long since the last update, I’m not sure where to begin.
So, let me start by saying that DD2’s speech therapy continues to be a success. She is saying spontaneous two word sentences now. A quantum leap from December. There has been some concerns about speech apraxia, but as of yet no official diagnosis. I think that as long as she continues to show marked improvement, we are all reluctant to stick too large of a label on the delay.
DD2 continues to be a very shy and concertedly organized little person. She likes to have things in order and could care less about being in the lime light. Quite the polar opposite of DD1. Whom craves attention like the air she breaths.
DD1 is currently in gymnastics and adores the exercise. She desperately wants to do the flips that the big girls do in “team” gymnastics. I’m all the time catching her in her room trying to do round offs and other such craziness. So, with the help of her coach, we’re working on getting her backbend strengthened and I’m trying to have her do more stretches. Anything to keep her mind off flipping off her bed! (I have pictures to prove the devastation that can occur when a four year old meets the footboard of her bed after attempting a hand spring.)
In addition to her physical aspirations, DD1 has become quite the negotiator. It’s a fantastic trait, that is easily abused by overuse. Still, we’re enjoying the “grown up” conversations. Even if she insists on saying “misappeared” instead of “disappeared” and “skunk screen” instead of “sun screen.”
DD3 is 9 months old now. She is cruising around the house. Using the wall for leverage when she runs out of furniture. She can stand on her own now. Although it scares her when she realizes she’s doing it. DD3 is saying all kinds of words. My favorites include “nonono” complete with head shake. And sometimes she mimics me and hollers “RA-RA” (her attempt at her eldest sister’s name.)
I had to leave DD3 with my mom last Saturday for an all day Behavior Management training. I was reluctant to be separated for such a length of time. But as it turned out we all survived. It’s so bitter sweet to think of my baby girl being so independent. Thankfully, though, it will be a whole year before I have to do that training again. So we won’t (or shouldn’t) have to test the waters of independence too frequently.
Our son is doing well. Because of privacy rights I can’t really update you on how things are for him. But will say that his smiles have become such a highlight of my day. I wish everyone of you could know him. Because he’s pretty amazing. It’s hard to imagine life without him at this point. I’ve really enjoyed being a mother to four. Even if I sometimes wonder at my own sanity.
As far as me…
I’m staying busy. Between FP training, workshops, LLL, playgroups, spinning guild and general parenting, I find that my calendar remains full. I only have one more project that I’m attempting to find a way to fit on my plate. And that is homeschool this fall. I’m joining together with some local friends to start a cooperative. And hope to order Sonlights P4/5 curriculum. I went back and forth on what I really wanted to do this fall, and when it came down to it, what I wanted more than anything was to open up DD1’s world of learning, introduce Handwriting Without Tears, and just take it easy. The Sonlight program is closest to what I want. A literature based curriculum that is not heavy handed with workbooks and seat work.
I’ve heard suggestions for other approaches and have made a pointed effort to just take it easy and not get too hung up on philosophies. DD1 adamantly wants to do “school” this fall. She keeps talking about the yellow bus and her “teachers.” I’m not sure how to explain it to her that she will not ever (if I can help it) ride the yellow bus, and at least for right now she won’t have any teacher except for myself… I’m hoping that between her enjoyment of homeschool and the extracurricular opportunities she will realize she has got a good thing going.